Self - Love...

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Dear Me,

 Finally, this cruel life taught me how to love you...
Some years gone in a childish way to understand ‘what is love?’, dozens of people told me different definitions, and in the end I got nothing...
And when I started reading, Mr. Darcy, Mr. Rochester, Mr. Heathcliff enlighten me with the true feelings of Love...
After that I spend many years again in finding someone special whom I can love fully, like Juliet love.

 I did found one.....
 It was spring, the season of love where each and every flower was blooming with love.
I found him as a Romeo, and after a year I found out his Juliet is not me.
I found out that mine love was only real nothing else, he was not my real hero, He was not mine, he was just playing with my emotions, he was playing with my dainty heart...
 That feeling was brutal, cruel, savage, and barbarous thing is I didn't stop with that experience.... I was still searching for the ONE, and every time I got harsh end only...
And then, I started loving myself. It was not easy, firstly it was not favorable but afterwards I did realize I have no choice. If I have to live my last breath with myself only so how can I hate or deject myself?
That day I perceived, life has some awful ways to teach us how to stay happy in one life with oneself...

 Reader, sometimes sh*t happens with every one of us... We can’t control it, but we can choose our path from that time onwards, we can control the reaction from our side.
Because, every situation, circumstances, even coin have Pros and Cons or we can say Heads & Tail.
 Many a times we choose ‘Cons’ - depression, failure, misery; we despair ourselves from everything But WHY?
Just, because some person or some situation made us to feel that way? Isn’t it?
They told us that we are not good enough or we don’t have that caliber or that looks in us and we did accept that. Somewhere deep within we knew that they really don’t know us, but still we do surrendered to them.
And from that time onwards we do always feel that we are lacking in many things in metaphorically say or practically.

 Though, the truth is non-identical from our thinking.
We do believe in “Everyone is unique” true? Then why don’t you believe in yourself? You are also Exceptional, Noteworthy or I can say, Sui generis...
 You are remarkable because, no one knows your struggle for this life, nobody knows how much you have cried behind closed doors and fights battles that they can’t imagine about.
 You are nonpareil ‘cause, you still have little hope, courage, love, faith and aliveness within you, for you, and for those who showed you that, “If you are struggling today, it means you are moving ahead from yesterday.”
 Always remember,
Never stop loving yourself,
Appreciate yourself,
Pamper yourself,
Give some credits to you for your progress,
Once in a month or two take yourself out on a date,
And most importantly, Say thank you everyday to yourself that somewhere in all these time
“An art of love was kindled in you, for you.”

Eventually, you are satisfied with your graph of life, where no matter what decisions you made or how much were gone wrong; but in the end you reached on a summit from where you can enjoy your view astonishingly.

In precis :

“Within you is the power to rise above any situation or struggle
 and transform into the brightest, strongest version of you EVER!"
Because YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL... ♥♥♥

With this I'm signing off...
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ALOHA ♥

- Nidhi ☺😘❤

Live...

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Hola Amigos,

I'm back with some good talk!!

Today I felt that, I should tell you something; so here it is.

No matter what happens, no matter how hard it is never give up on your self.
Everyone face the different times but the winner is one who try harder. Hope is dope because one little hope can change your life for ever. Always remember each soul is fighting their own battle, so feel little easy and try to find some solution and not escapism.
As we know someone is here to help you out, but we don't know about after life for sure.
Love your life because I believe somewhere your parents have the first authority on your life, as they'd have given you birth. For them you are the whole world, they don't expect much from you. They are happy in your happiness, they just want your little time and attention because they are also getting old.
My blog is nothing to do with this topic but still, if my one-act of kindness can change someone's decision, someone's life in a better way so be it.

I have seen some of my neighbours who gave up on their lives just because they thought ringing neighbour's doorbell or calling on their friends' number will get situation more scrambled. Go out and do talk with your people, maybe their first reaction will be furious but they will take care of you.
I love you too, no matter who are you but I do believe in you that you'll be fantastic soon.
Live, just live well and never leave H.O.P.E "Hold On Pain Ends."
So, Keep smiling it suits on you.

Adios...

-Nidhi <3


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All you need is being Vogue.

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Everyday is a fashion show & the world is your runway

Hola Amigos, 

“Fashion is the armor to survive the reality of everyday life.” – Bill Cunningham 

 Fashion is something we deal with everyday. Even people who say they don’t care what they wear choose clothes every morning that say a lot about them and how they feel that day.

 One certain thing in the fashion world is alter. We are constantly being bombarded with new fashion ideas from music, thespians (actor / actress), books, and television. Movies also have a big impact on what people wear. Ray-Ban sold more sunglasses after the movie Men In Black. Sometimes a trend is world-wide. Back in the 1950s, teenagers everywhere dressed like Elvis Presley and today also they do like to wear in fancy dress competition.

 The styles of dressing are always in a fluid state, and before one fashion sets a foothold another pushes it out. In crude terms fashion is a style of living. There are aristocratic fashions, film-style fashions, peasant class fashions and a kind of fashion known as maverick fashion. Naturally it is related to dress and manners. But manners imply something deeper than fashions. Besides fashion is comparatively superficial and changes with time.

  Fashion is not just about wearing branded clothes like, Coco Chanel or Ralph & Russo or Louis Vitton or GUESS or Prada or Levis or Lacoste etc… 

Or any heels like, Roger Vivier or Jimmy Choo or Sergio Rossi or Miu Miu or Nike or Adidas or Dolce & Gabbana or Valentino etc… 

Or any different bag or clutch or satchel like, Chanel or Fendi or Marc Jacobs or Hermes or Prada or Judith Leiber etc…  

But it’s about wearing your casual wardrobe with perfect style and with absolute sophistication;

Because, don’t change to fit the fashion, change the fashion to fit you.

Coco Chanel believes, “Fashion is not something that exists in dresses only. Fashion is in the sky, in the street, fashion has to do with ideas, the way we live, what is happening” 

 You too do believe in this, isn’t it? Because, the thing is we all do have difficulties, stress, and disappointment in our life but how we convert of all these disarray in a beautiful and glorious mess (in the abstract art of life) this expression is called as weal and woe.

In sum – up,

 In the end I’ll say, “Stress doesn’t go with your outfit, so stay adorable and keep smiling and live your life like champagne taste on a beer budget!!”  

With this I am saying goodbye, will meet you soon with new page on this blog.

Till then;

Dasvidaniya… 😼

 Nidhi 😃 ❤

Sweet Escape

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Hello reader,

Alesso says, “We run away, a sweet escape nothing can stop us now”

Here, I am not talking about packing your bags, taking your passport and run away with your mate in the night. I am talking about ‘Escape’ that little, teeny-weeny leisure time where you feel shielded or unshackled from reality.

eleutheromania: (n.) an intense and irresistible desire for freedom

 Freedom comes in many sorts of ways,
 positive liberty to accept everything,
 contrary liberty to expect nothing,
 self- acceptance liberty to happiness with oneself, 
 parti pris liberty to become unprejudiced being, equipoise liberty to balance one self’s thinking from negative or positive possibilities.
 The sources of knowledge and courage for these liberties could be books, movies, and music; I know our parents, teachers and friends are also there in list, but those books, movies and music leads us towards never-ending harmony of  joy and solitude. 
 It’s not just a book or movie or music, I prefer to call them as a “Treasure trove” – It’s a treasure trove of delights. They taught us many valuable things in our life and the main thing is they never judge you; they never demand or do complain about you, they are just always waiting on the shelves for us that one day we are going to pick them and going to spend some valuable time with them.

“One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.” – Bob Marley

 May be you like to hear Asha Bhosle or A.R. Rahman or Akon or Adele, Elvis Presley or Eminem or Ed Sheeran, Frank Sinatra or Hariharan A., Kishor Kumar or Mukesh Kumar or Mohammed Rafi or Marilyn Manson, Lata Mangeshkar or Louis Armstrong, Taylor Swift or Salena Gomez, One Direction or Maroon 5 or 5 Seconds of Summer, or you like to play Chopin, Bach, Mozart, or Beethoven in your balcony; No matter whom you listen, the music in itself is a healing. It’s an explosive expression of humanity and lenience. It is something we are all touched by, it is a spiritual when you listen to it, and it’s all about emotion.

“Books are the ultimate Dumpees: put them down and they’ll wait for you forever; pay attention to them and they always love you back.” ― John Green

Perhaps you read Jane Austen or The Brontë Sisters, C. S. Lewis or Lewis Carroll, Leo Tolstoy or Ernest Hemingway, F. Scott Fitzgerald or Gabriel Garcia Marquez, E. L. James or Stephenie Meyer, David Nicholls or Jojo Moyes, Agatha Christie or Stephen King, J. K. Rowling or J. R. R. Tolkien, never let anybody make you feel shamefaced of what you love to read. Reading is a process of metonoia.
Metonoia: (n.) the journey of changing one’s mind, self, or way of life.

 They say,“Reader lives a thousand lives before he dies. The man who never reads lives only one.”
It’s not necessary you have to read only fiction, people reads non-fiction too to improve their knowledge and personality. No matter what you read each book, each genre, each story will change your view towards life, it will wide your shallow thinking. A book is your one kind of a dream comes true; it is a form of magic, the ocean of possibilities, and a perfect intention to meet new people and visit new places like Wonderland or Hogwarts, or visit Narnia via the magic of a wardrobe.

“Watching movies is my one distraction” – Marilyn Manson

Numerous languages, different genres, innumerable classics, countless movies, yet crisp stories. This is the peculiar essence of the cinema; like books, movies also make you cry, excite, shiver, laugh and mainly they will make you fall in love with characters and stories. It plays an important role in improving your lifestyle and perception.
Every movie shares it’s unique story with us and make us believe in happy endings.
Like Star Wars series where Mr. George Lucas created the adventures of various characters in "a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away" with many legend characters like Darth Vader, princess Leia, Luke, Master Yoda, storm troopers etc...
 Singing in the rain the finest musical of all time with perfect dancing and great singing by Dabbie Raynolds, Donald O’connor and Gene Kelly, any other legend movies alike Gone With the Wind or Casablanca, Breakfast at Tiffany’s or Funny Face, DDLJ, or X-MEN series or any superhero movies or horror movies each movie tells us to live life fully, be yourself and life will go on. I can’t imagine my life without this treasure trove. It is like they touched our life, our soul with their magical tales; they live their impression on us, we can’t forget it.
They give us the feeling of drapetomania; to take a chance and fly away with your dreams.
Drapetomania: (n.) an overwhelming urge to run away

So those who are sick of the party like Carley Rae Jaspen go try to open these treasures.

I’d run away,
I’d run away with you.
Ooh
`Cause you make me feel like
 I could be driving you all night
 And I’ll find your lips in the street lights
I wanna be there with you
 Ooh

So, never feel depressed take a sweet escape nothing can stop you now, and if you fall they pick you up, and will follow you till the end of time…

Till then,
Adios… ❤



Nidhi 😄

What defines you?

Aloha reader,

Eminem says, “Never allow yourself to be defined by someone else’s opinion of you.”

Likewise, C. Kennedy says, “Don't judge yourself by what others did to you.”

But Internet says, “The correct answer to "what defines a person" is “NOTHING”. There is no correct definition of a human being -- human being "transcends definitions".”

I fully support to what Eminem and C. Kennedy are trying to tell us, besides what Internet conveying is not fully rational.

I am saying, neither your past defines you nor your good manners.
Good manners can be superficial or faked for a time being to impress people or society, whereas past is something you would always think and will never want to talk about. Past means something no longer existent but refusing to abandon us, past is like a teacher who will guide you on where to move ahead and when to stop.

 It’s okay!! Everybody has done some doltish mistakes in the past, but those mistakes can’t cease you. It’s fine, if you did trust generously to someone who pretended to be like honest and sober but in real he was just a perfidious, or your future plans didn’t work out. It’s alright if you have given up on something which was toxic for you. Even if something had damaged your fragile soul don’t give the power to those pessimistic feelings to overpower your tiny optimistic inner voice.
All these incidents are an example of successful vanquishment on your gloominess…

The truth is you will always find people with their colorful past.
Each color has it’s own meaning like As Black as gloominess, while Grey describes some chaos where people can’t justify how much is truth and how much is a lie, as red as anger or unforgivable past, yellow, green or, orange. All these colors suggests as optimistic, cheerful, positive and happy times. Always remember “Past” the word itself says that Gone by in time, so there is no meaning to waste your time in rethinking or reevaluating the results because you cannot change that and it is worthless too.

As I said earlier, what defines you is your inherent mentality / thinking, quality of being unprejudiced, and choices you have made.
Here, Batman (Bruce Wayne) also wants to remind you; “It's not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me.”

In sum – up,

 Seize the day! Be yourself, do what you always love to do, do not stress yourself because of others but be always there in doing something good for others and don’t blow your time in judging someone because ‘Beauty is only skin deep.’
Moreover, it’s never too late to change your life, or to dream a new dream…

With this I'm signing off...

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Aloha… ❤

-Nidhi 😄

Seasonal love or seasoned in love.

Hola readers,

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Jane Austen says, “We are all fools in love”

C. S. Lewis says, “Love is not affectionate feeling but a steady wish for the loved person’s ultimate good as far as it can be obtained”

Emily Brontë says, “If all else perished, and he remained, I should still continue to be; and if all else remained, and he were annihilated, the universe would turn to a mighty stranger.” 

 Every author, poet has portrayed love in their very own way. Today I’m also going to share what love means to me, how I pursue the concept of love.

Love starts from our own house, where we learn from our parents that how to love someone unconditionally, selflessly, and devotedly. From where we learn that not every big and expensive things and gifts needed to be happy, they taught us that respect, loyalty and trust are the main roots of true love. We learnt to make sacrifices, priorities, and should have faith in one another.
 Love is something which helps you in rising up and not falling down, which makes you not coward but more venturesome, which leads you towards freedom and not confine you. In short love should be your strength or passion not your weakness or frailty.

I believe love is not seasonal; it remains with us lasts forever. It’s like the scent of that particular blossom which stays with us forever and doesn’t fade away with time.

Love is not for a season but in love there are all seasons.

First is winter, which means White lips pale face breathing in snowflakes. 

Winter is for those big comfy warm hugs, snowy frigid long night with hot cocoa and pleasant conversations. To make new vows, plans to give delight and lovely surprises to each other, and love the idea about spending future together...

Now comes spring, which adds new life and new beauty to love.

Spring leads us towards blooming, love comes alive in an evolve form. Everything turns into beautiful; everywhere you see springtide of celebration of love. Same old eye, same old world but the difference is spring of love which changes your vision towards what is in front of you.

The tans will fade but the memories will last forever. Yes, it’s time for summer.

Summer mostly comes with innocent & sour bitter fights, tiny childish moody talks. Sometimes we eagerly wait for their valid reply but then have to adjust ourselves with non reasonable answers, then we feel a bit wabbit and tired about this relation and out of nowhere a bleep comes with a long cute message saying sorry and which makes us more precious and naive at the same time. However, that message leads us into those adorable bubbly flashbacks…

Monsoon says; Listen to the rhythm of the falling rain.

It is famous for cosy romance; it helps you to put more efforts in your bond, in your love. Those evening drizzled walks filled with chuclesome but absence of umbrella, puerile argument which turns into humour. Having food from each other’s plate, those cute good morning - night messages, those sudden long drives on damp road. Some fatuous quarrels which leads you to think it’s end, although it turns out that it’s not an End but, it’s just another Bend in voyage of love…

The thing is time shows us what is important in our life; these seasons reflect our patience, dedication, and involvement towards love.
Love means,

L – Listen to each other
O – Open your heart

V – Value your union

E – Express your trust

Somehow, again winter will come and again summer will follow; though the seasons change true love still stays the same.

In sum – up,

“Love is the voice under all silences, the hope which has no opposite in fear; the strength so strong mere force is feebleness: the truth more first than sun, more last than star...” - E.E. Cummings,  being to timelessness as it's to time

So, love truly and selflessly, because true love never fades away.
With this I’m signing off…
Your comments and feedback are always welcome…
                       Happy Valentine's Day... ❤❤❤
Adios. ❤

- Nidhi 😃

Family friends or Friendly family

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“I have learned that to be with those I like is enough”, said by – Walt Whitman
Single line, this single line explain it all and it’s true too. We do spend, share, and spread our love with those who are close to us, who are meant like family to us. These people are like your shadow, you don’t have to ask them for their support, incentivize, love or unwanted advice; they are always ready to embrace you in their big warm and cozy hug, and with this act of movement they heal you from tip to toe, from inside to outside.
 Your home is not home until it is filled with laughter, care, sacrifices, respect, love, sarcasm, and satisfaction. Sometimes I feel it’s a museum, where every unique identity is merging with one another as one with the acceptance of  their flaws and pristine qualities.
 No matter wherever you go, whatever you eat, whomsoever you meet in the end you will find your peace, love and comfort zone with your people only.
 That cozy bed of yours where you are tangled with your pet, the simple supper made by your mom, those gossip or arguments you start with your siblings or dad, these are the peace factor of your life, the paradise where you can be you by doing nothing and still you’ll be loved by them.

Family is not just about blood relations, it’s about friends too.

 I believe loving family is a gift which you got from the god, but true-hearted friends are the Christmas bonus of yours.

Somewhere F.R.I.E.N.D.S will always be the source of our legendary friendships. :D
We all do have some resemblance friends like- strict Monica, ingenious Ross, vogue Rachel, sarcastic Chandler, crazy Phoebe, and foodie Joey in our life.
If a friendship lasts longer than 7 years, psychology says it will last a lifetime. So, Like this they lived happily ever after till the last episode of the endmost season…

 Jim Carrey says“ I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that it's not the answer.” 
I do believe it’s a fair statement, ‘Cause root cause of our dreams and desire will be always our family. We don’t need two words Friends and Family…
Both are secretly lies in one word “FAMILY”. It’s a relationship where your innocence and art of insulting both emerge simultaneously, and still nobody feels offended. That’s the magic…

In sum-up,
These are my best lines from “Winnie the Pooh”
“Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind. 
"Pooh!" he whispered.
"Yes, Piglet?"
"Nothing," said Piglet, taking Pooh's paw. "I just wanted to be sure of you.” 
― A.A. Milne

Stay happy, make your people more happy and stay tuned for more post…
With this I’m signing off…
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 Adios…

-Nidhi. 😃